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It’s easy to adopt a motto or mission statement that sounds good and is catchy to those who hear it; it’s entirely another matter to live out that mission statement in practical daily examples of Christian love.  And yet, I see many examples of our mission statement, “Growing God’s Kingdom, one person at a time” on display in a variety of practical ways throughout our congregation.  Let me tell you about one of them.

William Riles is a mild mannered older black gentleman who has been a part of our congregation for many years.  He’s got what some might say is a ‘unique’ speaking style that requires a discriminating ear to fully understand what he’s saying sometimes.  A working class man all his life, William has had his share of struggles.  He suffered a stroke some years back and lost his wife of many years to cancer.  Yet, his outlook on life has been to focus on what he can do for others instead of the ‘woe is me’ attitude that so many display these days!  When someone is sick or hospitalized from the congregation, William is there to give a word of encouragement and cheer.  When a project is in need of volunteers, William is one who can be counted on to pitch in.  When a name is added to the ‘Prayer List’ William is sure to call seeking an address or phone number so that he can send a card.  If someone needs a ride or has a yard that needs to be mowed; if there’s a funeral near or far, William quietly goes about doing the things that make a tremendous difference for good!

He’s not a deacon, he doesn’t head up a ministry and if I weren’t writing about him you’d probably not know many of the things he does – because he doesn’t look for or want the attention of others.  But if he weren’t here quietly doing what he does in his own humble way; we’d be missing out on a great blessing! Jesus said in Matt. 20:25-28, “…whosoever will be great among you, let him be your servant: ²⁸ Even as the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister...”

While it’s very important to attend worship services, hear sermons and attend bible classes, the old adage is certainly true, “people won’t care how much you know until they first know how much you care!”    I believe that the work of ‘growing God’s Kingdom one person at a time’ is carried out each time people like William, do the little things in the lives of others that makes a difference for good and shows us a practical example of God’s love in ways that touch people’s lives in a deep and meaningful way.

~ John Phillips Jr ~

A friend and me were recently discussing awkward situations where stepping out in faith was required and what it was like to “do something” by faith. He told the story of a time when he was working on food prep with a few others in a kitchen at a restaurant on a day that a co-worker was out sick.
The coworker who was out sick for the day was someone who had some issues – not a “normal” person, but someone who would often say the “wrong” thing, or speak inappropriately because she was socially awkward and had a background that was different that most.

He said as they stood there working, some of the other workers began to talk about her and her shortcomings, giving examples of things she’d done wrong or of things she had said that they found to worth making fun of and ridiculing. It was a “fun” gossipy, slandering, conversation.

My friend said that as it went on for a while, it was more irritating than anything and that, just for kicks, he decided to do something different. He spoke up and said, “Yeah, __________ does have a lot of problems. Let’s pray for her” and he bowed his head and prayed openly for the girl and her issues asking that God would help her “get better” and “do better” in life, etc.

It was one of those weird, split-second things where what started as a kind of a joke turned serious quickly and that everyone else, including him, took praying for the absent girl very seriously and with a sense of genuineness. 

When he looked up as he wrapped up his prayer, everyone around the table had assumed a prayer posture – heads bowed, some with hands folded together – and were joining him in prayer and in concern for the odd girl who was absent.

After that moment, the conversation changed, people’s attitude changed, including my friends. He said that it was amazing how doing the right thing – praying for someone instead of talking about them in hurtful ways – actually had an powerful impact on everyone – on him, the absent girl and his coworkers.

I think sometimes we think that seeking God’s kingdom among us means something “bigger” and involves planning and money and a team and goals, when in reality it means taking God at his word and doing the normal, everyday good things that he puts in front of us to do.

That day had a powerful impact on my friend because he saw God at work in everyday life and it is a great reminder that we all have moments like that in which we can serve others in simple, real ways. Look for those places in your life where you can act, where you can speak and grow God’s kingdom.

Wade Poe

“How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!” (Romans 10:15)

Four years ago I’d never left the US; I’d never been on a plane. But I made up for the late start by witnessing 3 sunrises during 30 hours of air time on the way from Little Rock to Singapore. In Singapore our team of five college students taught conversational English using the book of Luke to people the local church had recruited.

After three weeks I came home to plenty of questions: “How many readers did you have? How many people did you convert? Did you get the see any baptisms?”

I remember feeling a little ashamed to say that I didn’t know of anyone who came to a relationship with Christ because of my presence in Singapore. It got me thinking: “What, if anything, did I accomplish over those three weeks and thousands of miles?”

Well…

— I had an excited student come in for her second lesson and inform me that she’d already read half the book of Luke two days after our first lesson!

— I spent 6-8 hours a week with a woman who was studying for an English exam. During one of our conversations she said, “I think God sent you here to teach me about Jesus.”

— I discussed some of the best questions about God and the Gospel I’ve ever heard from a Chinese student who had been taught a general disdain for religion. Even so, he was always excited to be with us, to talk with us, to spend time with us, and even to leisurely beat me at ping pong again! Oh, and he was 10 years old!

God and his Word accomplished a lot. I didn’t do anything special. I just loved people and shared my love for God and his love for me. Like the church in Acts 2, I think we “enjoyed the goodwill of all the people” we were able to spend time with.

Now you might say, “I could never go on a trip like that. I have a job; I have to take care of my family.” You may not have to! BUT as you go you do have to seek out opportunities to love and invest in the people God has placed around you.

One of the students I have been blessed to disciple here at Genesis has been sharing his relationship with God with a friend who is studying here from another country. Through genuine friendship she has seen his love for God and the deep relationship he has with God. Through one-on-one conversations about faith, she recently surrendered her life to Christ! Wherever we go we are to bring good news!

If we love God, we love all people. And if we love people, we invest in them. And as the love of Christ overflows, HE adds to our number daily those who are being saved.
Morgan Hines

I was shocked. Sitting in my pew that Sunday morning, I tried to picture that many people— 5,000 kids waiting for a family, waiting for God to do something. Foster care and adoption had never been on my family’s radar until that day. Slowly but surely, we believe God started whispering into our lives.

I am proud to say that Central Church of Christ is a church who embraces the idea found in James 1:27 of taking care of widows and orphans (the least of these) when they can’t do it themselves. I have watched from afar many families at Central take in children who are not their own and treat them as a family member through the foster care system. I have seen families adopt children and give them a permanent, loving home to call their own. And for the people who feel they can’t do that, they find ways to give back to the system or serve those foster and adoptive families in creative ways.

About a year ago, my wife and I felt God asking us to build his kingdom by joining the already thriving network of foster care families at Central. After many months, we officially became certified and received our first placement— a 7-month-old girl.

Through this process we have learned much about working in the kingdom. We quickly found out that building God’s kingdom will, in fact, change your own way of life. We don’t have nearly as much free time as we used to and we find our own resources being poured into a child who doesn’t belong to us. Working in the kingdom isn’t always fun. In fact, it’s hard, hard work. But it’s rewarding.

When you grow God’s kingdom, you usually have to sacrifice something of value to yourself so that you can give something of value to someone else. This is so clearly evident in the lives of foster families. And it’s a hard thing to do— but you push on because you know it’s good.

We find ourselves being swept up in the narrative of God more and more everyday. Are we perfect? Far from it. Have we arrived? Absolutely not. But we are growing. When you make an intentional decision to grow God’s kingdom, often you find yourself growing as well.

Psalm 68 says, “God in His holy house is a father to those who have no father. And He keeps the women safe whose husbands have died. God makes a home for those who are alone.” (NLV)

He is a father to the fatherless and he surrounds people who are truly lonely. This is the heart of God. As my wife and I continue to love kids in the foster care system and welcome them into our home, we do so with the expectation that we are aligning our hearts right next to God’s and, in the process, our hearts will eventually look more and more like his.

We want his kingdom on earth to be just like it is in heaven. For us, that starts by joining a movement of people who are loving and embracing 5,000 kids in Pulaski County.

Corey Stumne

             I am always moved by acts of kindness or heroism toward children – I think most people are – but with recent emphasis on the need for more foster homes and for more funds to aid those in foster care, I’m struck by all the similarities between those who open their homes and hearts to children in need and God’s constant opening of His home and heart (His kingdom!) toward us.

In the Central family alone, we have so many who lay their lives down every day and allow God to pick them up and use them however He sees fit. As I enter the time of life where we don’t have as many children at home, and our life is not as busy with the everyday pull of multiple children’s homework, sports, and social activities, I can see how tempting it would be to just sit back, relax, and allow life to center around me and what I want. Unfortunately, there’s nowhere in the Bible that refers to that kind of rest while we’re here on earth.

Bill and Susie Keesling, at a time when they could have easily justified spending all their time focused on their own family and careers, chose to do more than just that. They chose to become foster parents, and extremely effective ones. They have welcomed sweet baby after sweet baby into their home and life and treated them just as they would treat their own children or grandchildren. They have been present at a crucial time in those babies’ lives in a way that may keep them from suffering some of the emotional anguish that usually goes along with being taken from biological parents. Kingdom living involves placing the needs of others before our own, stepping up to use the gifts God has given us to bless others. Bill and Susie are a wonderful example of what that looks like.

Another example of this kind of kingdom living is Mike and Kyndra Thomas, who give their lives every day to the task of raising children who are not their own to love God and to know the stability and security that comes through serving Him. In addition to focusing on their own family, they are focused on God’s family through having children and teens in their home constantly and showing them how a Godly home works – complete with help with homework, Bible study, family dinners, and game nights.

Finally, there’s Betty Graddy and her adult son, Joe, who, because of the physical disabilities that Joe lives with and the care that he requires from Betty, have had to look at kingdom life from a different perspective. There are many things that they would love to do for others that their life situation doesn’t allow them to do, and many in their circumstance would not have been able to get past that. Not Betty and Joe – they are instead constantly looking for ways to grow God’s kingdom. For them, it is through beautifully written words of encouragement to others, giving of funds to help children go to camp and other important Christian activities, and any other act of service that they can carry out.

Laying our lives down so that God can pick them up and use them to His glory – that’s His kingdom here.

Tammy Beck

 Jesus, in the Sermon on the Mount, spends a lot of time talking about what it looks like when the kingdom is among us – when we are abiding in the kingdom of the heavens. It is a wonderful place where things are turned upside down from the world’s point of view – where the first will be last and the meek will inherit the earth.

What does that look like in every day life though?

• like moving our family to a place where people desperately need to hear the good news about Jesus even though it is far away from home?
• like being a beacon to those in our neighborhood, school, and job that leads them to Jesus’ perfect love?
• like being best friends with the one that most would avoid?
• like bypassing the things we want so that we can provide things that others need?
• like refusing to take revenge – in traffic, in sports, in life?
• like sacrificing our rights so that others can be saved?

The kingdom of God lived out on Earth looks like the Daggett’s or the Meyers or the Thomas’s – giving up the “American Dream” of a bigger house, a nicer car, better clothes, and better schools because they are sold out for Christ and the life He offers, and want, and at all cost, to share that with their world.

The kingdom of God lived out on Earth looks like a teenager standing up for what’s right at the risk of being ostracized or made fun of, or protecting the one who has become the butt of everyone’s jokes.

The kingdom of God lived out on Earth looks like those who serve those who have little, regardless of the reason for their poverty.

The kingdom of God lived out on Earth looks like inviting a child into your

family through fostering or adopting because that is what God did for every one of us.

The kingdom of God lived out on Earth looks like washing the feet of those who would be your enemies as a way to bridge the gap made by Satan.

We are all in charge of our own personal kingdom – the question is: Does your kingdom fit inside the parameters of His?

Tammy

I believe that understanding the ‘nature’ of the kingdom is very important in order for us to know how we fit into the bigger framework of the kingdom of God.  However in understanding the ‘nature’ of something we all need to start at the same basic point understanding or interpretation.  It seems to me that one of the problems when trying to understand the nature of God’s kingdom is that we often leave too much open to individual interpretation!  In the process of discovering what the kingdom or ‘church’ really is, too many people improperly interpret the church by what they have experienced.

If they’ve experienced harsh leadership, inflexible attitudes or hypocritical relationships, their interpretation is bound to be skewed.  I believe that we can only really arrive at the right understanding when we let the Lord tell us what His kingdom is all about!

There a re many scripture passages that talk about the Kingdom of God but I want to quickly remind you of two.  In John 18:36 Jesus says, “My kingdom is not of this world. If My kingdom were of this world, then My servants would be fighting so that I would not be handed over to the Jews; but as it is, My kingdom is not of this realm.”  The nature of the Kingdom is not about fighting to establish our particular brand or a group identity to outshine some other religious group.  The nature of the Lord’s Kingdom is about being all that He wants us to be and to accomplish that by being in ‘submission’ to his divine will and purpose, which is to reflect Him in all that we do so that others will be drawn to Him also.

The bible also states in Romans 14:17, “For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost.”  I believe that the apostle Paul wanted to convey to us that the nature of the Kingdom is not based on the material things that impress people or the felt needs of those looking to get what they want out of life.  Rather, it is understanding the deeper spiritual principles that lead us to live righteous lives before God and one another.  When we begin to understand this, we find the peace and joy in the spirit, which I believe, truly embodies what the nature of the Kingdom is all about!

~ John Phillips Jr ~